Arthur "Artie" Benoit
20/01/1987 - 18/12/2020
Obituary For Arthur "Artie" Benoit
January 20, 1987 - December 18, 2020
It is with so much sadness, shock, disbelief and heartbreak to all his family and friends, that Arthur James Douglas Benoit made his last wildly inappropriate and probably sarcastic comment on December 18, 2020.
Artie was a strong, loving man, a hard worker with a big soft heart and a proud, larger than life persona. He had no greater pride than being a dad to his two amazing babies Cash and Zoey who he loved so very much; they were his whole world. They melted that tough exterior he always had. They had him wrapped around their fingers and hearts. He was loving, fun and hilarious. Up for anything whether it was gaming and basketball with Cash or princess make-up and rap time with Zoey; he was down for it all! He loved to sing and dance with them, take trips to the park and have ice cream movie nights with snacks and the mattress pulled out to the living room. They are his pride and joy. He was high school sweethearts and eventually a husband to sweet, beautiful Melissa for many years and though they didn’t remain married, they’re friendship stayed. They were best friends and co-parented amazingly together along with Melissa’s husband, Kyle. Artie held much love and respect for them and he will never be able to thank them enough for continuing to love cherish and carry on his legacy in Cash and Zoey. He grew up surrounded by many cousins and friends. Artie will always be protecting and watching over his children and all his loved ones as the proud strong warrior he was.
Ever since he was a baby, He had the most infectious, bigger than life laugh and smile and impacted everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him. He had the strength, stubbornness, determination and pride of his Dad, Benny. He had that tough exterior but also carried the soft heart, kindness and helpful ways of his mom, Diane. He had enormous love and pride for his brother Derek. He was an amazing father, a beloved son, loving brother, adored Grandson and loving nephew to many awesome uncles and aunties. He was the coolest most fun uncle/cousin ever; he loved teasing them all and making them laugh with his ridiculousness. He was the most fun, crazy, cherished friend, and the life of the party.
Arthur will be greatly missed by his Mother Diane Cooke, Brother Derek Benoit, his children Cash and Zoey Benoit-Copeland, Ex-Wife and Best Friend Melissa Copeland (Kyle), Nephews Madden Benoit and Tanner Roesler, Auntie Joanne Whiteduck, Auntie Barbara Cooke, Auntie Kathy Cooke, Auntie Beverly Caron, Uncle Stash Benoit (Helen), Auntie Dale Benoit-Zohr (Osborne), Auntie Carol Kohoko. As well as many Cousins; Kellie (Randy), Connor, Mason, Tanner, Chuck (Andrea), Mackenzie, Jaxon, Jennye (Kyle), Nishayah, Aaliyah, Taven, Oaklynn, Madison, Mary (Tom), Macy, Maggie, Josh, Jake, Sherry (Morris), Mitch (Michelle), Hayley, Ethan (Tiara), Silas, John-Paul (Lisa), Taylor, Joey, Kruz, Steven (Crystal), Hunter, Kamryn, Raven, Gerry (Kellie), Liam, Daniel, Connie, Audra, Samantha, Florence, David, Amanda and Paul.
He will be missed by his dear friend and confidant Frankie, his “homies for life” in Jay, Kris, Carter, Matt and Mitch and so many more cousins, friends and work family.
Arthur is pre-deceased by his Father Douglas ‘’Benny’’ Benoit, Grandfather Arthur Benoit, Grandmother Maisie Benoit. Grandmother Rita Cooke, Grandfather James Cooke, Uncle Mark Cooke, Uncle Russel “Doc” Benoit, Uncle Brian “Cody” Benoit, Uncle Keith Benoit, Uncle Glen Benoit (Val), Uncle Garry Kohoko, Aunt Carla Commanda (Howie), and Cousin Patrick Cooke.
If we could please ask for prayers and tobacco laid as he begins his journey into the spirit world, where we know his Dad is waiting to greet him along with all his other loved ones gone before.
A private viewing was held at Bear Creek Funeral Home. Due to COVID restrictions, access to this memorial was very limited, we sincerely apologize we could not include all of those who wished to attend.
We will have a celebration of life for Arthur at a later date, in both Grande Prairie, AB and Pikwakanagan, ON. That information will be made available as arrangements are made.
We would like to extend our sincere gratitude to Bear Creek Funeral Home for being so very accommodating during this difficult time.
Care entrusted to Bear Creek Funeral Home 780-830-7742 www.bearcreekfuneral.com
Photos & Video
Add New Photos & Video
Offer words of sympathy and comfort, share a memory or light a candle.
Add a Candle
Click a candle below to add a candle to your message.
To leave a condolence message, add photos, or add videos, please provide your name and email address
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a funeral?
A funeral is a ceremony for a deceased person prior to burial or cremation. A funeral gives the opportunity for family and friends of the deceased to gather and mourn the passing of their loved one, to share cherished memories and celebrate their life. A funeral is a vital first step to help the bereaved heal after the loss of someone special.
What type of service should I have?
If no pre-arrangements have been made, the type of service is entirely up to you. Services are usually held at a funeral home, community hall, or a place of worship. There is a wealth of different services, ranging from a traditional religious or military service to something a little more non-traditional. Our funeral directors are more than happy to work with you to figure out what would be the most appropriate.
Who are Funeral Directors and what do they do?
Funeral directors are in charge of all the logistics following a death. They complete all the necessary paperwork, make arrangements for the transportation of the body, and put into action the choices made by the family in regards to the funeral service and the final resting place of the body. Beyond the logistics, funeral directors are there to provide moral support and guidance for someone coping with death.
What if a death occurs away from my home town?
We are here to help, we can arrange to have your loved one transported home from anywhere in the world. We will assume responsibility and make the proper arrangements to have them returned to the community. We use the same organization that brings our military home when needed.
What is embalming and what purpose does it serve?
Embalming sanitizes and preserves the body; it also slows down the decomposition process and enhances the appearance of the body damaged by traumatic death or illness. Embalming gives time to the family of the deceased to arrange a service, and allows the family the option of having an open-casket viewing.
What do I do if I am not satisfied with the way a funeral was handled?
Funeral homes and funeral professionals in Alberta are licensed by the Alberta Funeral Services Regulatory Board. If you are unhappy with the way a funeral was handled or the actions of a funeral home in Alberta, you may speak with or proceed with a complaint process to seek resolution of the matter. More information is found at http://www.afsrb.ab.ca/ or by phone at (780) 452-6130
How much does a funeral cost?
The cost of the funeral varies depending on the wishes you have. The average cost of a funeral is between $5,000-$7,000, however, it varies greatly depending on the kind of service you desire. In general, cremation tends to cost less than burial. The costs include professional services including transportation, embalming and other preparations, the use of a facility for the ceremony, and the purchase of a casket or urn.
Can I personalize a funeral?
Of course you can, in fact, more and more people are opting for a more non-traditional personalized service. There is no right or wrong way to celebrate somebody’s life. There are many unique ways to celebrate life, let the funeral director know exactly what your desires are and they will honour your wishes.
Do we need to have an obituary notice and what is included in one?
It is highly recommended to have an obituary notice that’s either placed in a local newspaper or placed online. An obituary lets the public know that a death has occurred, and gives them information about the service. Obituaries generally include the deceased’s full name, age, city, and date of birth and the city they were living in when they died. It also includes the name of the deceased’s spouse, along with the names of anyone else significant in their lives, such as parents, children or grandchildren. Space may be limited in a newspaper obituary, but you may include a little blurb on the life and legacy of the deceased. An online obituary or memorial website offers you the chance to add a lot more about the deceased.
What happens if the death occurs in the middle of the night or on the weekend?
We are here to help, funeral directors are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and 365 days a year.
Do I need to have an embalming
No, embalming is often an unnecessary expense, even if a viewing is desired. There are times when we would recommend embalming, especially if there is an extended gap between death and burial or cremation.
Why are funerals so expensive?
Funerals are labor intensive and require a lot of work from a lot of people. The cost of a funeral goes beyond merchandise such as caskets, it includes the services of a funeral director in making the necessary arrangements, filling out forms, and dealing with all the other people involved in the death (doctors, lawyers, insurance companies). Funeral directors work an average of 40 hours per funeral. The cost of operating a funeral home is factored into the cost as well. Funeral homes are a 24 hour operation, with extensive facilities that need to be maintained and secured.