12/07/1936 - 04/05/2021
Obituary For Emily Hudson
It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Emily Hudson on May 4, 2021 in Duncan, B.C. Emily was born July 12, 1936 in Ksituan, Alberta, one of eight children born to Ahafia and Feodor Yanishewski. She is survived by her husband Harry, her three children Wednesday, George (wife Kelly), and Steven; along with her 5 grandchildren Pierce, Palliser, Phoenix, Roman and Ayla and her brother Danny.
Emily grew up in northern Alberta in the rural village of Ksituan near Spirit River. A strong homesteaders’ work ethic was instilled at an early age which fashioned Emily into the hardworking and enthusiastic woman she was so loved and respected for. She spoke often of those early days with great fondness, particularly the great love for her parents and the protective care of many older brothers. She never forgot the sacrifices made by her parents as new immigrants.
Emily married her first husband John Holmberg whose family owned the Hardware Store in Sprit River. They spent enjoyable times camping, fishing and hunting in the Interior of BC in Kitimat. Tragically, John was drowned in the Stikine River not very long after.
Emily met her husband for the rest of her life in Edmonton while taking a course at college. It was a thirty below night and she had trouble starting her car. Harry proved to be the knight in shining armour and the rest is history. After moving about for a few years – Calgary, Drumheller, Kitimat - Emily insisted they settle down in Victoria, B.C. Previously, Emily had worked at the Hudson Bay Company and for the Toronto Dominion bank but here she found her talents as an entrepreneur and salesperson blossom, beginning with Sarah Coventry Jewelry. Later she would find herself one of the top real estate agents in in the 80’s & 90’s in Richmond, B.C., an accomplishment she was immensely proud of and rightfully so, as she started out in a new city not knowing a single person. In addition, she would go on to acquire small businesses and run a BNB. Apparently the Yanishewski capacity for accomplishment is tough to match!
Emily took the strong sense of community she was born into and carried it into her volunteer work throughout her life. Her legacy includes raising funds to build the school gym for St Joseph’s Elementary School as well as daycare.
Emily may have left the farm but the farm never left Emily. For one, she drove like every road was a gravel road in the middle of nowhere and was known to hit a ditch or two in her 60’s and 70’s. The love of Land was there too. The family purchased a hobby farm while in Victoria with horses, Charolais cows and chickens. Later Harry and her retired to a log cabin they built on five acres in Wycliffe, BC. But we use the word “retired” lightly as Emily continued to volunteer at the local church, babysit, hike 30km mountain trails and garden.
Emily’s remaining five years were spent in the Sunridge Seniors Place in Duncan, BC where the dedicated staff helped care for her as she coped with Dementia which robbed her of many recent memories but polished the love and great kindness she had in her heart. Her last words were all about love.
Emily’s body will be laid to in Ksituan with a small funeral service (due to Covid restrictions) Wednesday, May 12, 2021 at 1 pm at St. Joseph’s in Sprit River. The service will be available online via the link below. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the Alzheimer’s Society of Canada.
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What is a funeral?
A funeral is a ceremony for a deceased person prior to burial or cremation. A funeral gives the opportunity for family and friends of the deceased to gather and mourn the passing of their loved one, to share cherished memories and celebrate their life. A funeral is a vital first step to help the bereaved heal after the loss of someone special.
What type of service should I have?
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How much does a funeral cost?
The cost of the funeral varies depending on the wishes you have. The average cost of a funeral is between $5,000-$7,000, however, it varies greatly depending on the kind of service you desire. In general, cremation tends to cost less than burial. The costs include professional services including transportation, embalming and other preparations, the use of a facility for the ceremony, and the purchase of a casket or urn.
Can I personalize a funeral?
Of course you can, in fact, more and more people are opting for a more non-traditional personalized service. There is no right or wrong way to celebrate somebody’s life. There are many unique ways to celebrate life, let the funeral director know exactly what your desires are and they will honour your wishes.
Do we need to have an obituary notice and what is included in one?
It is highly recommended to have an obituary notice that’s either placed in a local newspaper or placed online. An obituary lets the public know that a death has occurred, and gives them information about the service. Obituaries generally include the deceased’s full name, age, city, and date of birth and the city they were living in when they died. It also includes the name of the deceased’s spouse, along with the names of anyone else significant in their lives, such as parents, children or grandchildren. Space may be limited in a newspaper obituary, but you may include a little blurb on the life and legacy of the deceased. An online obituary or memorial website offers you the chance to add a lot more about the deceased.
What happens if the death occurs in the middle of the night or on the weekend?
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Do I need to have an embalming
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Why are funerals so expensive?
Funerals are labor intensive and require a lot of work from a lot of people. The cost of a funeral goes beyond merchandise such as caskets, it includes the services of a funeral director in making the necessary arrangements, filling out forms, and dealing with all the other people involved in the death (doctors, lawyers, insurance companies). Funeral directors work an average of 40 hours per funeral. The cost of operating a funeral home is factored into the cost as well. Funeral homes are a 24 hour operation, with extensive facilities that need to be maintained and secured.